When we first divorced we said it would be like this... but it wasn't.
When we first divorced it was chaotic and filled with drama and lots of unnecessary ridiculousness.
After 4 years, we have worked through our own personal selfish junk and have been able to find peace, both individually and as their parents. That is pretty awesome.
So for our Monkey's 8th birthday we all headed to the movies. All of us. Mom, Dad, stepdad, girlfriend, brother, sister, and the Monkey. That's pretty great, huh?
And it was FUN.
And we weren't faking it.
And we want to do it again.
I've said it before and I will continue to say it.
WE get to decide what their normal is.
After many years, we are able to make their normal, a great big beautiful blend of love.
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